Without attention .... Without the focus of energies... coming from both directions... the connection itself is lost. .... without even realising an article written by the wellknown romanian writer Adrian Dumitru
Without attention .... Without the focus of energies... coming from both directions... the connection itself is lost. .... without even realising an article written by the wellknown romanian writer Adrian Dumitru
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She used to like a lot the attention of others.
… especially the one coming from men.
But starting this relationship with him … seeing his extreme jealousy … she little bit stop … asking for attention … all around.
Cause …. that type of energy came from him.
He loved her with passion.
And … obsession.
They liked each other.
They talked for hours.
In fact … nobody could understand what subjects they could have to talk.
Unfortunately … later on … normality started again.
He was taking care of his businesses … not staying anymore for hours with her.
And … all changed.
The story itself was amazing … but next day … the whole energy was totally different.
And he could not understand why?!
It all became a balance of contradictory emotions … being happy …. but also extremely nervous with her.
In fact … a nonsense … which he couldn’t understand.
But …. the passing of time… made him realise … that not paying the same attention to her … she started again to enter in contact with others.
Socialising.
Discussing about lots of subjects.
Connecting her soul … with men and women … from her past or … her present moment.
And …
Well … she was not aware of the impact of those connections.
And …. their influences.
Of the changes … on her own energies.
So … all was perfect … then he left … she connected to the others … and coming back to her … he could not accept anymore all those new influences.
And …. everyday … was the same.
Most certainly … she felt bored without him.
So …. automatically replacing the attention coming from him with the attention coming from other people … she disconnected from the connection with him.
He became … nervous.
More and more nervous.
… but not understood why.
Somehow … all was his fault … cause he didn’t stayed anymore nonstop with her.
He didn’t satisfied her need … for attention … and …
Yes …
She replaced the focus of his energies … with the focus of others … not being aware … of the impact of connecting with other men and women.
Ruining their connection.
So … all was amazing … as long as he was around her … being 100% into the relationship.
But … the moment when he had to leave … disconnection appeared again.
All … becoming a vicious circle.
Not being able anymore to pay her attention … he was simply … replaced.
Coming back … unconsciously feeling all … he was losing his minds.
They started to argue.
To scream.
To … act as real enemies.
But … could not understand … why.
Then … calming down … reconnecting again … all became beautiful …
One more time.
He left.
And … again … her needs of attention forced her to connect to other souls …
It was the story of jumping … from a unique connection to connections with many others souls … but the process
itself ruined … their story.
Maybe all was done … from her side … unconsciously … but like any other beautiful woman … she desperately needed attention.
And … couldn’t stop herself.
So …. the story itself continued.
But … he didn’t realised .. her need for attention.
And … she couldn’t stop herself chasing from this attention everywhere.
So … all was balancing between being a nice … but also an ugly story.
… a nonsense.
Which …. they could not understand.
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